Naturally curly hair is independent. It can be defined and lively one day, and frizzy and uncontrollable the next. Because of their unpredictable nature, curls can be difficult to maintain over time as a result of weather, styling, and even neglect. My hair was no different.
I decided it was time for a change after putting up with breakage, dryness, and uneven texture for years. My goal was to embrace my curls’ inherent beauty and give them new life. Although this journey wasn’t easy, I learned a lot about patience and proper care from it.
I’ll go over the methods I used to get my curls back, the products that worked, and some advice I found useful while navigating the ups and downs of having curly hair in this post. I’m learning to love my hair for what it is—beautiful despite its constant inconsistency—after going through a process.
- Hair past
- What I have now
- My CGM
- Products
- Plans
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Hair past
I thought my hair was a misunderstanding, like many curls, so I straightened it with an iron as my first attempt at altering my appearance. Straightened hair that had not yet been damaged became incredibly soft, silky, and long.
My hair is fairly thick, so straightening it properly could take me an hour, but I didn’t let laziness stop me from doing it after every wash. If time was of the essence, I would just use an iron to run over the roots, giving the appearance of curly hair coming from the middle. It was stunning, but I was unwilling to acknowledge the consequences of using an iron to straighten hair nonstop for two years without using any heat protection or attention. At times, I would even bring a rectifier because even a small amount of humidity would make everything return to normal. It’s astounding how long they lasted.
The inevitable disaster struck, and eventually the hair started to break off in large amounts. It lasted a long time and my hair was all over the place. My hair was streaming down my body as the water in the shower ran over it. Naturally, I was taken aback and mistook hair loss for severe breakage.
After that, I took the straightener off and put it away. My hair became a horrible dry broom as it faded and lost color. A translucent, tangled tail extended from the length nearly to the waist and stayed there. The hair appeared extremely rare, and the fact that they did not fall out only became clear to me a few years later when I ruled out any variations in the density of the head’s partings, as evidenced by the growth of hair on the forehead, back of the head, and behind the ears.
What I have now
I’m still concerned about this nightmare’s aftermath. About four years ago, I finally stopped excluding the heat exposure, but my hair is now entirely different lengths. I learned about the start of CGM departure about two years ago, which simultaneously pleased and disappointed me. More on that below, though.
I have no dry ends in my shoulder-length hair, which I recently chopped. However, there is a lot of room for improvement in the crown’s hair quality.
I now understand the following regarding my hair:
- They are not porous
- They absorb moisture poorly and it is difficult for me to wet them when washing.
- I conducted an experiment with a glass of water and hair of different lengths from different parts of the head – none of them sank even after 20 minutes (this method cannot be called 100%, because the result may depend on the properties of the water).
- The paint lasts a long time, but washes off slowly.
- The care is not suitable for porous hair.
- Requires regular care
Even so, there are undoubtedly a small percentage of people with flawless hair who don’t need to take care of anything because their hair takes care of itself. Their hair cannot be ruined by coloring, bleaching, or hot styling. My hair is not the worst; it has several unique qualities of its own, one of which is that it requires maintenance. It helped me to stop breaking.
- It has disadvantages
- My non-porous hair looks porous due to breakage along the entire length + plus the clumsy antennae of new hair create a mess and stupid volume, which I never liked.
- Flat and twisted.
- Dry on top.
Sensitive to the sun to the point of falling off due to pigment loss, they need protection and intense moisturizing during the summer. Even though I took a lot of vitamins and lived in a humid climate that was perfect for curls, I ended up throwing away a large amount of broken hair after spending a summer under the Turkish sun.
Because curly hair is constantly changing due to weather, products, and care regimens, restoring it can feel like a roller coaster ride. The secret is to work with its inherent texture and strike a balance between light styling methods, hydration, and nourishment. This post describes how I personally dealt with my curls’ unpredictable nature and the actions I took to give them back their luster and health.
My CGM
Apart from the daily burning phase, my hair also withstood a phase of anxious, forceful maintenance with everything in order. My head was doused with liters of both inexpensive and costly folk remedies, as well as just liquid from gorgeous jars. Efforts produced no results. The city where I previously lived had a poor ecology, and the water there contains impurities and chalk. In addition, my approach was wildly erratic and I knew nothing about the peculiarities of my hair.
After a while, I started to see curly method-related articles and videos, but only in English. Subsequently, I purchased my initial curly hair products from Katya at her renowned store, Curl Rock and Roll. Unsurprisingly, I was ecstatic. I learned the basics of curl maintenance with shampoo, conditioner, a very cheap fixing gel, and a silk T-shirt rather than a terry towel. I was able to partially restore my hair and conceal breakage behind well-defined curls because of CGM.
Then I decided that this was sufficient since my broken hair would heal itself with such care and it was a minor issue. I was dubious about oils, spent entire days in the summer sun without protection, disregarded the importance of nourishing and moisturizing masks, and could only smear chicken yolk on my hair once every six months.
After my first summer in Turkey, I started to think twice about how I was taking care of my hair. I cut it to my shoulders and prepared for restoration. I made an effort to moisturise my burnt hair using an excellent argan oil mask from Organic Shop. I overdosed because I used it as a conditioner and a mask.
I couldn’t even push my hair to the side because it was simultaneously oily and dry, soft and hard. My curls were really tough. I kept treating my hair like it was porous and put the accumulation of products and CGM to blame. As a matter of fact, my curly method was a hack job, leaving too much product on my hair. I would rather take more of the conditioner than use a gentle stream of water if it wasn’t moisturizing enough. My strategy of "thickner mask and more conditioner, but quickly" was a surefire way to overdo it.
I detest the appearance of under-washed hair, an overabundance of cast, and a drawn-out refresh procedure, all of which are displayed by nearly all CGM supporters. I prefer curls that are loose and somewhat fluffy. Thus, my approach stands out for its relative minimalism concerning the range of products and quantity utilized, but not water usage.
Now that I’ve established my CGM style, I adore it wholeheartedly once more and have refused to join the small group of detractors. Every curly should have its own unique technique, unique to itself. While every individual has a preference for products, the first step towards having gorgeous and healthy curls is WATER, followed by care that is tailored to the specific structure of the hair. Not every curl has pores in it.
Products
I try to keep the number of jars in the bathroom to a minimum. I dislike the shelving for storage, and even now, as I’m looking, I only have a little set (but I want less). In Turkey, I purchased every bottle and jar available. While I didn’t anticipate anything exceptional from any of them, a few of them gave me joy.
As for shampoo, I’ve never thought of it as a crucial component of maintenance. I know there are people who disagree, but my hair doesn’t care what kind of shampoo you use. I’ve never had any problems with my scalp. I generally like shampoos without sulfates.
- Shampoo SebaMed (anti-dandruff)
German shampoo from the category of pharmacy dermocosmetics. Sold here everywhere. I bought it after a friend praised it. Mine for dandruff, because at that time I was worried about overdrinking and it seemed to me that perhaps this one cleansed more powerfully, and I did not want to buy a separate deep cleansing shampoo. As a result, after several uses on my own, the overdose gradually went away. There are two more types of this shampoo: against hair loss and for daily use, and I"m going to buy the latter when this one runs out. The shampoo itself is very soft, economical, cleans well and without squeaking, no complaints.
- Nourishing conditioner Ogx Coconut Milk
I think I may have used the wrong conditioner because I had trouble finding one here. I’m glad to have this one so far. It is greasy and requires a lot less for a single use than CGM masters typically recommend. Thorough combing and additional water work wonders. There is also coconat water in this line, and it ought to be less greasy.
- Restorative mask OGX Extra Strength Coconut Miracle Oil Hair Mask
This mask has an average composition and a strong coconut scent, which appeals to me since I love everything coconut. For about an hour, I wore it under a cap on my damp hair. Enhanced sheen following coloring, without adhering. Hair is more crumbly, thick, and slick. I only used it once, and I’ll write a thorough review at a later time. It’s great so far.
- Ammonia-free paint BioMagic 44.43 Brown – Macadamia Nut
I do not remember a single negative review about this paint and I myself think it is super. I wanted to dye my hair for a long time in order to thicken damaged hair and even out the color, which due to constant fading always has a gradient on me. I categorically do not like it. The paint gave me everything I wanted to get: quality of coloring and hair itself; excellent caring properties; the resulting color and how to use. The paint should be applied to dirty, dry hair, wait half an hour and wash off with shampoo and conditioner, which are included in the kit. Very practical, fast and stain-free.
- Care spray-mist for curly and wavy hair Soho N.Y.C.
There is no knowledge of this delightful discovery in Russia. was nearly randomly purchased. The spray is advertised as a way to create curls, shield hair from damage, control sebum levels, and serve as a fragrant mist. The scent and the way it creates a light, almost oily cast that seems to be holding the curls in place are the exact reasons I like it. I don’t use it on my scalp, but it’s odd that the composition’s initial entirely artificial ingredients are the only thing that baffles me. It also controls sebum production.
- Regular coconut oil
I used to use oils infrequently, grudgingly, and incompetently, but I’ve been using coconut oil on my eyelashes for a while now, and it helps them grow nicely. Because it said it would clog pores and cause issues with hair growth, I was afraid to use it on my scalp. Nevertheless, I started massaging my scalp using a little bit of heated oil, and I’m pleased with the outcome. Still, I’m searching for a peeling that will stop me from cleaning my pores.
- Strong hold gel Curl Rock And Roll
After washing, I love to put a little gel on my very wet hair if I want really bouncy curls. Additionally, I can’t function without it when it comes to arranging my hair into a bun. If not, everything stands out like the skin of an African woman. I use Tangle Tizzer to comb through everything after mixing the gel with water. The only way my current light hold gel differs from my old one, in my opinion, is that it makes my hair feel lighter.
I only comb my hair like algae and use it when I wash it. However, everything is well and without a hitch with the right CGM care.
I’ve been taking gentle iron, magnesium, and vitamin B6 from Solgar for more than six months. Iron has a mild, gradual action, has no negative side effects, and has no effect on the gastrointestinal system. I believe it made me stop breaking things. Since iron deficiency is a problem that affects every woman eventually, I recommend taking iron supplements to everyone.
Recently, I’ve started taking magnesium for mental clarity and restful sleep. It’s difficult to say anything since it’s been so long.
Plans
I wish to incorporate into my care
- Hair products with UV filters and a scarf
I now know a crucial detail about my hair. Overexposure to sunlight combined with my passion for the outdoors could almost turn me blonde. My careless summertime use of a spray bottle filled with water for "moisturizing" outside exacerbates everything. Multiple tones of hair can burn out, which looks good until it all falls out. Before summer officially begins, there is still time to search.
I"m going to make it at home myself from boiled water and lavender essential oil.
| Challenges I faced | Solutions I found |
| Frizz and dryness | Deep conditioning treatments once a week |
| Loss of curl definition | Using lightweight styling creams |
| Heat damage | Switching to air drying and reducing heat styling |
| Breakage | Regular trims and avoiding tight hairstyles |
| Scalp irritation | Using sulfate-free shampoos and massaging the scalp |
Curly hair restoration is a real journey. It takes persistence, tolerance, and a great deal of education regarding the needs of your hair. You learn what works and what doesn’t as you go, and each step gets you one step closer to having defined, healthy curls.
Your curls may appear erratic on certain days, but that’s all part of their allure. Accepting this inevitable fluctuation enables you to recognize the distinct beauty and character of your hair, even in instances when it deviates from your expectations.
Finding balance—taking care of your curls without trying to control them excessively—is ultimately what matters. Your hair will thank you for its natural, carefree beauty when you give it the proper love and care.
